Unconditional Love

Loving as God intended; Love that endures all things; Love that is a sincere, endearing, emotional, praying, compassionate, unselfish, merciful communication of the heart, soul, spirit, mind and body of two people in a relationship for a life-time. Love… a fairytale with a happy-ever-after.

Love through the good, the bad; love through sickness and health; love through joy, happiness, disagreements, misunderstandings, hurt and pain; love through storms, rains and cloudy days; love through richness, wealth and poverty; love through insecurities and pride. Love is the security of a solid ground, stability, doing what is right for you and your family.

Love does not lie. Love is honesty and doing nothing that will create a need to lie. Love does not argue, fuss and fight. Love is peaceful, kind, understanding and merciful Love does not leave because it’s the easier choice. Love endures, works things out in love and . Love is not being prejudice. We are all God’s children, we were not meant to be the same Love is not abusive: No one belongs to no one. No one should have that much power over you to make you mad. Love does not keep secrets: Secrets changes the texture of a relationship like a drop of dye in a pure glass of water. Love is not selfish: Love not about self. We are all here for someone else. Love is

We are all here for someone else. Love is sacrifice of self with wisdom, giving joyfully without expecting something in return, helping willingly without motives, putting someone else’s needs before your own.

Mean

MEAN People that hold a managing position or hold a leadership role, often come off as stern or mean. They demand respect and be taken seriously. They are not mean at heart but to get the job done takes firmness, stability and dedication. There is respect and honor even in chastising. There has to a balance of tough love and teaching the lessons that need to be taught.

From My Heart: But being two different people (stern and caring) is not easy; the line is very thin. Being determine, dedicated, devoted, focus, task driven, serious about your future, goals with a 5 year plan and still and still be professional and human is hard. This person is often misunderstood and misjudged. Most often they are different outside the work place, fun and a joy to be around.

Like in any leadership position: Lead with wisdom, knowledge and love and everything else will work its way out for your good. Just do the right thing.

Watching You

Poetry

As I watch you, walk around the house, I feel your secrets, weighing heavy on your heart, drowning your spirit and creating distance between us and I have done nothing wrong. I love you day in and day out, searching my own heart to find the right words to give you comfort enough to speak, while praying for comfort to embrace me when the truth hits my soul like a ton of bricks.

We talk as if nothing has happen; we touch from habit; we are polite to each other like we were taught to do. We respect each other’s space and fit to each other like hand to a glove. I watch you constantly try to hide that secret and the harder you try to protect that secret, the less strength you use to protect what we have.

You forget that I’ve been with you long enough to know when or if there is a change in your touch, your kiss, the way you walk, how you sleep and how you make love to me. I know, and yet I don’t know. Honesty is love. Which will matter the most? Love in honesty and truth or the grounds of stability and fruitfulness.

I wish that I could promise that I won’t leave you, if you choose to be honest with me. I can’t promise you that I’ll stay and live as I have forgiven and forgotten. But I can promise you that the truth is always better than a festering lie.